Montessori misc.

Joyous Celebration with Adele Diamond, 4 Special Days in Vancouver, BC

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Joyous Celebration with Neuroscientist Adele Diamond,
4 Special Days in Vancouver, BC

This was the most amazing and generous and important gathering I have ever attended. Adele Diamond invited 500 friends and colleagues from 41 countries to join her for several days of sharing and making connections. 90 members of the group gave 15-30 minute presentations over the four days. We all paid our own transportation and hotel and Adele fed us all for the entire event! Here is the description of the gathering in her words: Continue reading →

Colombian schools, and the ADHD Question

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It is so rewarding to share what I have seen here during these days. I often tell people, “Authentic Montessori can exist without materials, but not without the very best of teachers and a deep understanding of Montessori.”

THE TIMBIO MONTESSORI SCHOOL
The picture here shows an amazing practical life task, a seven-year-old saddling his horse at the end of the day at the Montessori school in Timbio, Colombia. Think of the executive functions (the most important predictor in success in life) being strengthened with this work: planning, organization initiating work, patience, logical sequence, self-control, perseverance, solving problems, working memory . . . And the feelings of the child as he engages in real work that he sees being done around him every day, and can do largely on his own. Continue reading →

UKRAINE, How to Talk to Children about War

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How to Talk to Children about War

It is impossible these days to completely avoid news about the war in Ukraine. Here are some ideas for how to best help children feel protected and safe during these times.

AGE 0-3
Of course, the best we can do is to avoid any television, radio, phones, and other electronic access to war news when the young child is present, to limit following the news of what going on in the world to times when we are alone. A child at this age is very tuned in to the words, actions, and even the emotions of us adults. We cannot, and should not, try to pretend that we are not upset, or way, when a child sees that we are upset, that everything is fine. Such a conflict between body language and facial expressions, and our actual words, is very confusing to the young child. When it is clear that we are upset, the best thing is to tell the child, “I am upset because I don’t like to see people fighting.” That is usually enough. The message is honest and clear, and the child will get the message and feel safe.

Then we can move on to what comes next in the day. Being free from war news in order to spend some of our time together, reading books, drawing pictures, setting the table, going for a walk, and looking at the leaves of the trees, feeding the cat—in essence, being in the present moment—is a gift to ourselves as much as to the child.

AGE 3-6
I would say that everything above applies to this age. The difference is that at this age the child is learning from the rest of the environment as well as from the adult. Continue reading →